Madame L tends to think that poems reflect real-life experiences and thoughts and feelings of poets, but of course poems don't have to do that at all. In fact, in some poems, the poet takes on a persona that is most decidedly not that of the poet.
One of Madame L's favorite examples is "My Last Duchess," by Robert Browning, in which the narrator or persona is clearly not the poet himself. The duke stops in front of a painting of his last wife, his last duchess, as he makes a deal for the hand of a countess to be his next wife, cataloging the other fine art works he possesses.
So, even though Madame L provided a link to the poem, she is going to include it here, too. If you want to hear the poem read aloud, which is the best way to enjoy a poem, other than reading it aloud yourself, you can find a link to an audio recording at the Poets.org page.
(Madame L has deleted the poem which was included here because it seems to be causing problems with other posts.) So go to this link to read the whole thing: "My Last Duchess," by Robert Browning,
That's my last Duchess painted on the wall, Looking as if she were alive. I call That piece a wonder, now: Frà Pandolf's hands Worked busily a day, and there she stands. Will 't please you sit and look at her? I said 'Frà Pandolf' by design, for never read Strangers like you that pictured countenance, The depth and passion of its earnest glance, But to myself they turned (since none puts by The curtain I have drawn for you, but I) And seemed as they would ask me, if they durst, How such a glance came there; so, not the first Are you to turn and ask thus. Sir, 't was not Her husband's presence only, called that spot Of joy into the Duchess' cheek: perhaps Frà Pandolf chanced to say, 'Her mantle laps Over my lady's wrist too much,' or 'Paint Must never hope to reproduce the faint Half-flush that dies along her throat:' such stuff Was courtesy, she thought, and cause enough For calling up that spot of joy. She had A heart -- how shall I say? -- too soon made glad, Too easily impressed; she liked whate'er She looked on, and her looks went everywhere. Sir, 't was all one! My favour at her breast, The dropping of the daylight in the West, The bough of cherries some officious fool Broke in the orchard for her, the white mule She rode with round the terrace -- all and each Would draw from her alike the approving speech, Or blush, at least. She thanked men, -- good! but thanked Somehow -- I know not how -- as if she ranked My gift of a nine-hundred-years-old name With anybody's gift. Who'd stoop to blame This sort of trifling? Even had you skill In speech -- (which I have not) -- to make your will Quite clear to such an one, and say, 'Just this Or that in you disgusts me; here you miss, Or there exceed the mark' -- and if she let Herself be lessoned so, nor plainly set Her wits to yours, forsooth, and made excuse, -- E'en then would be some stooping; and I choose Never to stoop. Oh, sir, she smiled, no doubt, Whene'er I passed her; but who passed without Much the same smile? This grew; I gave commands; Then all smiles stopped together. There she stands As if alive. Will 't please you rise? We'll meet The company below then. I repeat, The Count your master's known munificence Is ample warrant that no just pretence Of mine for dowry will be disallowed; Though his fair daughter's self, as I avowed At starting, is my object. Nay, we'll go Together down, sir. Notice Neptune, though, Taming a sea-horse, thought a rarity, Which Claus of Innsbruck cast in bronze for me! - See more at: http://www.poets.org/viewmedia.php/prmMID/15701#sthash.LRmJunKn.dpuf